自嘲，化解交际中尴尬的法宝
2009年3月5日
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在生活中，我们不可避免地会遇到一些尴尬的情况：由于口才不好，说话不得体弄得自己跟他人都很难堪时，会感到尴尬；在社交场合，不知道怎样和陌生人说话，受到冷遇时会感到尴尬。
人在尴尬时，实在是左右为难，手足无措。此时，如果能恰当地运用自嘲，想起语言就是力量，就能自然地走出尴尬。自嘲，即自我嘲弄，表面上是嘲弄自己，但实际上却另有所指。在交际中运用得好，就能让尴尬变成笑声，在笑声中展现出你非凡的智慧和人格魅力。
有时，你可能会遇到一些突发事件，让你感到措手不及，一些人平时口才不好，也不知道如何训练口才，那么面对这样的情况一时不知道如何应付，陷入尴尬的境地。此时，如果你善用自嘲，就能巧妙地化解尴尬。我的同事跟我说了这样一件事：在一天的早上，天很多乌云，刮着风，看来要下雨。我同事走在上班的路上，有个身材瘦小的中年男人骑着摩托车从后面开过来，这时，一阵风迎面刮过来，那个中年男人突然变光头了，原来风把他的假发吹掉了。旁人看见他的秃顶都笑了起来，这时，光头男不紧不慢地说：“这头发本来就不属于我，从我头上掉下，又有什么好笑呢？它不是也离开了原来的主人吗?”
在这件事中，光头男那时如果手忙脚乱地跳下车，拾起假发再戴上，那只会让人的笑声更大，他自己更是尴尬没面子。而光头男运用了诙谐自嘲的语言，巧妙地帮自己解了围，顺便还调侃了一下头发原来的主人，可谓是高明的说话方式了。
在日常的交际中，当你学会了如何运用自嘲时，你也就掌握了化解尴尬、维护尊严和制作快乐的一种有效办法！
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